Thursday, March 6, 2008

Kiss is all we need...

Love is in the air..

Kiss Me Baby














Ciuman bak keajaiban. Membuat kita seolah terlempar ke langit, melayang-layang ringan dan hangat di tengah angkasa. Tapi, kenapa ciuman yang Anda rasakan selama ini, kok, datar-datar saja? Tidak membuat perut Anda tergelitik atau jantung berdebar kencang. Simpelnya, tidak menggigit alias hambar! Baru berciuman dalam hitungan beberapa detik saja, pikiran sudah melayang ke mana-mana. Hmm, padahal Anda mendambakan tarian bibir yang menggetarkan dan mampu menguraikan kedekatan emosi dua manusia dengan begitu indah.
Mungkin, ini saat tepat bagi Anda dan pasangan untuk mengasah seni berciuman. Ya, ciuman memang jangan dilihat sebelah mata. Menurut William Cane, penulis buku The Art of Kissing, layaknya making love, berciuman juga merupakan seni. Ketika dua pasang bibir berpadu, Anda membuka diri sekaligus mengenali dan merespons kebutuhan dan perasaan pasangan Anda, begitu juga sebaliknya.
Ada dua alasan utama pasangan berciuman. Pertama, untuk memuaskan kebutuhan biologis melalui stimulasi oral. Stimulasi oral tak bisa dianggap enteng, karena tanpanya Anda tak bisa mencicipi nikmatnya hamburger atau segarnya punch dingin. Ternyata, berciuman adalah sumber kedua untuk memenuhi kebutuhan stimulasi oral, hanya setingkat di bawah makanan dan minuman.
Kedua, ciuman menggambarkan ekspresi kasih dan kedekatan secara emosi dan fisik. Ciuman juga merupakan ekspresi seksual awal ketika Anda mulai bergairah. It’s the foreplay of making love. Itu sebabnya kenapa manusia tak bisa tidak melakukannya.
Ciuman bisa memberikan sensasi nikmat? Hal ini terjadi karena ciuman membangkitkan fase kedua respons manusia, yakni excitement. Tubuh secara fisiologis akan merespons, mengalirkan kehangatan, memberikan perasaan nyaman dan relaks. Tapi, untuk dapat merasakan sensasi nikmat ini, ciuman tak bisa dilakukan secara asal-asalan. Setidaknya, ada tiga faktor yang menentukan: orang, waktu, dan tempat.
Bila Anda merasa gugup, tutuplah mata Anda. Dengan mata tertutup, Anda menjadi lebih relaks dan dapat berkonsentrasi. Take your time dan be gentle. Buka sedikit bibir untuk menikmati irama lembut bibir pasangan Anda dan mengenal dirinya secara perlahan.
Plus, yang paling penting adalah faktor higienis. Aroma tak sedap (baik dari mulut atau tubuh) bisa mengganggu kenyamanan berciuman. Menggosok gigi, berkumur dengan obat pencuci mulut, mengonsumsi permen beraroma mint, wajib hukumnya apabila Anda hobi merokok atau habis makan bawang. Duh, kebayang, dong, malunya kalau Anda sampai dijuluki ‘cantik-cantik tapi bau’. Supaya aman, siapkan selalu permen di dalam tas. Dengan napas segar, Anda pasti selalu pede.
Ingin mencoba, berikut jenis-jenis ciuman yang dapat menjadi ‘petualangan’ seru buat Anda dan pasangan!

- French kiss
Bagaimana cara paling oke untuk melakukan french kiss? Mulailah dengan berciuman bibir terlebih dahulu. Setelah merasa nyaman, pelan-pelan bukalah mulut lebih lebar. Bila mengalami kesulitan karena mulut pasangan terlalu rapat, isaplah bibir atas atau bawah pasangan. Biasanya, setelah itu pasangan otomatis akan membuka mulutnya lebih lebar. Julurkan lidah dan temui lidahnya di tengah-tengah. Perlakukan bibir dan lidah pasangan layaknya itu milik Anda sendiri.
Agar tidak gugup, bayangkanlah Anda sedang menikmati makanan favorit. Bereksplorasilah, liukkan lidah Anda, dan jilat lidah si dia. Godalah dia dengan memutar-mutarkan lidah Anda. Intinya, have some fun! Kalau Anda sudah terhitung pro, buatlah variasi ‘kejarlah daku kau kutangkap’. Bermain ‘kejar-kejaran’ dengan lidah pasangan bisa menjadi alternatif seru. Variasi ini dilakukan secara bergantian. Kalau Anda sudah merasa lelah atau bosan dengan gerak dan aktivitas bibir Anda, berhentilah pada saat yang tepat.

- Ciuman di leher
Sembilan puluh tujuh persen wanita mengaku ‘meleleh’ bila dicium di bagian sensitif ini. Daerah tengkuk jangan sampai dilewatkan. Ciuman ini bisa membuat Anda kegelian dan ibarat mengirim Anda ke surga.

- Ciuman di Daun Telinga
Sembilan puluh empat persen wanita mengaku tergila-gila pada ciuman jenis ini. Saking nikmatnya, banyak wanita yang mengaku ciuman ini dapat membuat lutut lemas tanpa daya. Really turns them on!

- Candy kiss
Konsumsilah permen karet atau permen beraroma mint. Ketika bibir saling mengikat, tukarkan permen di mulut Anda ke dalam mulutnya. Ciuman ini oke untuk variasi. Ciuman yang manis, tapi menggoda. Intim, karena miliknya adalah milik Anda juga.

- Rollercoaster kiss
Ciuman seru dan mendebarkan. Dilakukan di puncak tertinggi sebelum kereta meluncur ke bawah. Ciuman dengan adrenalin tinggi. Sungguh pengalaman tak terlupakan!

- Eskimo kiss
Ciuman dengan saling mengendus hidung. Cocok untuk mendinginkan suasana setelah berciuman bibir secara panas. Selain cute, ciuman ini cocok sebagai penutup. Menggambarkan love, bukan lust.

- Freeze kiss
Ciuman eksperimen dengan after taste yang nikmat. Bibir dan mulut sangat sensitif dengan rasa dingin. Konsumsilah batu es, dan tukarkan ke dalam mulutnya lewat ciuman mesra. Es yang meleleh akan melahirkan sensasi yang menggetarkan.

- Underwater kiss
Lima puluh persen wanita mengaku pernah melakukan dan menyukainya! Rahasianya, ambillah napas sebelum menyelam, lalu berciumanlah di dalam air. Pria pun menyukainya karena sesuai dengan fantasinya bermesraan dengan ikan duyung. Ciuman ini terasa erotis karena dilakukan di tempat yang unik.

french kiss

FIRST KISS




















Perched on the ship ramp of the USS Inchon, Kim Gatlin gets the "first kiss" from her boyfriend, Boatswain Raymond Miculob. The sailors, just returned home port to Ingleside, Texas, held a competition for the right to the first kiss after docking. Miculob won after buying one $2 raffle ticket. (Saturday September 1, 2001)

BETTER KISSING

For most of us, women and men alike, there was that one person who kissed us like no other. Some of us are lucky enough to still be with that person. For others, that person's kissing skill may have been his best attribute, and while our current partners have many other skills, kissing is not at the top of the list.



No need to merely daydream about those past great kisses -- you are about to be handed the keys to the kissing kingdom.

Critically important is the way in which you approach making suggestions to your partner... Given that kissing is one of the more important parts of lovemaking, it should be something we all do well.

Always make a point of saying what works, not what doesn't. Do not tell him he doesn't kiss well or doesn't 'do it' for you unless, of course, you don't want to see him again.Know that people will often touch (and kiss) the way they like to be touched.


As men are stronger and have thicker skin than women, they often touch to the pressure they know and like, which can be too much, especially initially, for women.Also, because men's mouths and tongues are larger, they may be too forceful in the moment of passion. Yet men are aware how easily a woman can go from 60 to 0 on the desire meter as a result of overly forceful or careless kissing. And there is nothing they want to avoid more than something that will interrupt lovemaking.

Kiss and tell: what women and men want in a kiss




















Kissing is a near universal phenomenon occurring between sexual and/or romantic partners in over 90% of human cultures. While almost everyone kisses there is very little information around on why people kiss or what makes a kiss spectacular.

In an effort to at least get simple descriptive information on why people kiss and what makes some kisses an experience that makes one weak in the knees Susan Hughes, from Albright College in Pennsylvania, evaluated 1,041 college students. She asked then questions about their kissing preferences, styles, attitudes and behaviors. A wealth of information emerged. Here are a few of the most interesting findings.

- Men and women reported having kissed a similar number of people in their lives; 14 was the average number for both men and women
- About 50% of men would have sex without kissing their partner first; only 10% of women would do so.
- Men want to kiss someone based on their perception of facial attraction, women focus more on a man’s teeth in deciding if they would like to kiss him.
- Kissing seems to be more important before sex and much less so after.
- Overall, kissing is more important for women than for men in having a satisfying sexual experience.
- Overall men prefer wetter kisses with more tongue than do women.
- Both sexes preferred more tongue with long-term partners.
- Men are more than twice as likely to have sex with a bad kisser than are women.
- 59% of men and 66% of women have been put off by a potential partner’s kiss at some point in their romantic lives.

How to get boys to kiss you












There are three things you must do if you want boys to kiss you: dress right, smile and act friendly, and flirt. If you do these things, he'll feel an unconscious desire to kiss you! Here's an example of how to get a guy to kiss you from the movie Bounce, starring Ben Affleck and Gwyneth Paltrow. Notice that she's dressed right (Well, you can't see all of her clothes in this shot, but take our word for it -- she is), and her hair is in a nice ponytail. The only problem is she wasn't smiling too much or flirting just before this kiss. It was almost like the Ben Affleck character felt sorry for her. You can see she still has a rather serious expression on her face as she's being kissed. To improve your chances of being kissed by the boy of your dreams, practice your smile and try to be in an upbeat, playful mood. Guys like girls who are fun to be with. Of course there are exceptions, and some rather artistic and intense guys like girls who are gothic, moody and nihilistic. If this is the type of guy you're after, then adjust your style to fit his. You might want to start carrying around a copy of his favorite book with you, just so that when you meet him you can pretend you're reading it. (This brilliant idea was sent in by Cindy from Spokane, a 15-year-old who said it worked to help her get to kiss her current boyfriend who was really into Harry Potter.) (Photo copyright 2000 by Miramax Films)

Park Shin-hyes first kiss on Goongs

Young star, Park Shin-hye (16) onscreen kiss with fellow star, Se7en is her first kiss ever. Lucky girl. But totally unromantic kiss. Look at Se7en staring at her. Dang. I guess it’s better than the last kiss.

Screen worthy kiss for Koh Soyoung and Park Jung-chul












Wow. Just looking at the screen shots, you know that the kiss shared between Ms. gorgeous Koh So-young (36) and Park Jung-chul was smokin hot! Not only that, you can’t go wrong with a romantic sunset by the beach with an equally hot man. This can only result in a screen-worthy liplock. In fact, the filming crew applauded after the final cut because the kiss between the 2 stars was so palatable and real. The scene, filmed on March 8th for the SBS drama, “Blue Fish” (trans: 푸른 물고기) at the utterly unromantic sounding Rottnest Island in Australia, will air on April 8 at 9:55pm.*

It’s a kiss!


















It’s a kiss! And……beyond the pure joy of kissing, there is published research that states that each passionate kiss burns between 6 and 12 calories, depending upon the level of enthusiasm.

“Each kiss placed and received buns an average of 9 calories.” At an average of three kisses a day (of course that means EVERY DAY) that amounts to burning OVER 9,000 a year. That means three pounds of weight loss!

So not only is kissing soooooooooooooo good, it’s a great way to loose weight!

Start today and get in the habit of sharing at least three kisses every day! Kiss your mate, your partner, your children, your mama or dad, your grandma or grandpa, an aunt or uncle, a friend, or even a puppy!

62 Years Later, a Kiss That Can’t Be Forgotten















A simultaneous re-enactment of the famous kiss in Times Square, which took place 64 years ago. (Photo: Justin Lane/European Pressphoto Agency)

Valentine Kiss














A boy or girl student is wanted for Valentine's Day